today i watched a science documentary about love and chemistry being nothing more than a chemical reaction. apparently, the more sex you have with your partner, the more you will develop an emotional attachment to them, not because the sex is good, but because the act of intercourse and cuddling before n after releases certain feel-good endorphins that we all love. as time goes by, we associate these good feelings with that particular person and we misinterpret it as ‘i cannot live without him’.

in reality, its not that you cant live without him. its more that you cant live without that feel-good feeling. i wished i watched this show earlier!

i used to think we make love cos we really love that person lots. but experts say – sex makes you fall in love with that person, so if you don’t want to fall in love with him/her, don have sex! obviously, the more sex you have, the more in love you will be. talk about a vicious cycle..!

sigh i need to find my perfect man – the one who has a healthy balance of niceness and excitement. =) he can untidy or a neat freak, doesn’t matter so long as he loves me and can give me butterflies in my stomach even when im 50.